Valor and Levi

From now on Boy7's online nickname will be "Valor" and Boy1's online name will be "Levi". They are listed on the sidebar of my blog if you ever forget who is who.

Valor: "strength of mind or spirit that enables a person to encounter danger with firmness : personal bravery"

Levi: "joined" or "joined in harmony"

We have had Valor and Levi for 4.5 months now. I love them more and more each day and don't want to imagine life without them, but I know it might become a reality someday. At this point the goal is still reunification. 

Valor is very attached to Josh and I. He is a sensitive child and I gave him the name "Valor" (online) because I believe he will someday overcome his fears and be a valiant man. He is thoughtful and helpful. We have to be very careful in how we approach correction with him. Even a slight firmness in voice can bring him to tears. This does make discipline (teaching) very easy for us. He takes us very seriously and applies what he learns very quickly. That being said, I can't imagine how a harsh parent or one who thinks they must spank would damage this child, especially at this point in his life. I am very thankful for a calm and loving husband who knows how to deal gently with him, and for the parenting books we've learned so much from.

Everyone seems to notice Levi everywhere we go! He is a handsome little 15 month old who toddles around with a big smile, greeting anyone he sees. He wakes up singing or laughing and is a joy to be around most of the time. He is learning fast, but isn't so sure about these things he's not allowed to touch (the printer and computer cords, for instance). Mommy just won't let him get into everything he wants and it frustrates him a lot! ;-) He says several words and loves to play outside in the sunshine. He is also attached to us and loves kisses!

Foster parenting keeps us so busy. Not only taking care of these precious little boys, but the paperwork, school, and constant appointments keep us hopping. I have wanted to write more about them but haven't  really had the time.